i'd like to see a community where people weren't allowed, ever, to allude to something that someone else might, or might not, have done to them (either in a PM or e.mail) in a thread. a community where other posters didn't fan the flames by chiming in with subtle "asides" in the aggrieved member's threads.

conflict resolution would be great, if it stayed between the people who actually were having the conflict. a community that fostered that would be ideal. having that work in the community would keep some members from going and coming to avoid game playing.