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I guess my real question is about whether this is something I need to learn to live with, or whether there is any possibility that he could ever overcome this reaction to his frustration?

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From my experience with my own husband who use to react like your husband does to stress - I would say that yes it is possible for him to change, or at least calm his out burst a little.... but honestly to be safe I would say that it would be best for you nerves to learn to accept his ways (as to cont' to love him), but to keep on trying to gently and lovingly help him to see other ways that he might be able to better express his inner upsets through.

NOW!! - with that said I cannot say that this will be easy for either one of you guys, but that it is possible and can be accomplished to a certain degree.... I say to a certain degree, for some learned behaviors (from childhood) never fully leave us.


LoVe,
Rhapsody -