Hello MissyWoo and welcome to the forums here. Many people here consider this place just what you describe: a place full of caring people that can relate and understand.

It sounds like you have a good plan for improving yourself, your situation, and your life. I wish you luck, and hope that being here can help along those lines as well. I also hope that your boyfriend finds help with his ADD or whatever it turns out to be. It is a very good idea to go to couples councilling or a support group for ADD together. A support group can help him with his ADD, you being there will help by showing him he has support and will also help you learn about ADD, what to expect, and how both of you can cope with it together.

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