I didn't recognize the signs maybe I was too in love but after a few years of marriage she told me she didn't feel horny and she thought something was wrong with her instead of telling me she wasn't attracted to me until this past November. We have been seeing a therapist and it has helped a little but she still does not have the sexual desire and attraction. She did mention that she has always been this way even with her ex boyfriends which is why she was cheated on a lot but I have always remained faithful and feel unappreciated because its easier to just go out and cheat but I cannot be that kind of man. It's not like she doesn't want it to be different it's that I feel like she is pinning it all on me to fix things.