I'm bi-bi too. More relationships with women than men, but both have had there share of being amazing/caring etc or crazy/toxic. In general I find women more physically attractive but I find some guys are just so beautiful inside that I find them more and more attractive as I've gotten to know them. And I get along really well with both men and women.

My relationships with women eventually implode ... too many emotional crises etc etc. The women I've dated have been very clingy. I don't feel so attached with guys, and that's a good thing for me. I had an open relationship with a guy for 2 years and I slept with women during that time. I don't think any of that was really satisfying though.

I don't really know what I want! But it's good to have multiple options...