Sounds like distorted advice. I think stable you can lead a great a life as anyone. Why not? I've lived alone, done so many different good things, before I knew I have bipolar disorder. I'm still me. I am 41, and just found out. The only changes have been medication, educating myself about BP, making sure I get enough sleep, and learning what might be triggers, joining PC to talk to like minded people. Relating. It helps

Welcome court!