Hi everyone,

Me and my boyfriend are together for almost a year now and his ex girlfriend from 5 years ago has recently contacted him saying he might be the father of her 5 years old son. They were only together for like a month and she slept with another guy as well so she doesn't know who the father is. Apparently she doesn't want anything from him she just want to find out who the father is. My boyfriend had no idea he is the potential father and all these years she never mentioned it to him. He done the dna test so we should find out tomorrow hopefully but I'm just really worried that it's gonna affect our relationship.

I'm scared that if he is the dad he will prioritize his son and not our future. Which might sound selfish but I can't imagine us building our future now because he will spend all his money and time on the kid.

Please anyone in the same situation or something similar help me

Thank you