My H wants good drawn out sex. I don't want sex at all. If we could both achieve "O" in less then 5 min that would be nice. But he can get his fix. I am not so interested in getting mine. So we can settle for quickie. He almost acts as if a quickie doesn't count at all. If that is the case then he will be very unhappy with seldom but good sex.

It is hard to find the happy medium. Seldom and good.....or....quick, frequent and mediocre sex.