We only see our selves in our eyes or in our head. I don't often look in the mirror but when I do I see my body at 56 years of age. Today in session my t asked me to look at my hand. It look like it was 56 years old. I explained to my t that the body is 56 and the others are the age they believe themselves to be. This is because we are locked in time by our memories. We hold memories from moments in our life and remain in that moment. Most of us that is. There are others that are in the world and know what to say and how to present. I will sometimes see something I want to wear but than the ones in the world remind me that the body is 56 and what I might want to wear might draw attention to us. Or cause someone to question us. Right now we mostly wear jeans and shirts. We stopped wearing skirts and dresses about 25 years ago. It never felt right. I hope something I sad helped. I sorta babbled.