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Originally Posted by avlady
This is really a sad situation, most people get married or used to, so that they could have sex with the consent of their religious beliefs. I think there are many saying etc in religious books too that contain such subjects about the woman pleasing her man or visa versa. If you're not getting any at all, what a shame to have missed some beautiful moments and the loss of not even knowing what you've lost. If I were you I would get a divorce, unless you think someday she'll come around and be with you. Sex also helps us grow and express our true feelings such as trust etc.. and pure true love. That is just my opinion.
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Thank you for your advice. I am a the type of person who thinks divorce is a trend rather than a necessity. I don't think believe if you have strode before god and promised to stay together through the good and the bad then one should fight and find solutions to stay together and become stronger. I don't want to set a trend for our children to tell them it's ok to give up on someone you love and want to be with. My parents have been together for over 34 years and have gone through some really difficult times but they always remembered that as long as they love each other they can overcome any obsticles. I want the same becuase I don't want my wife to just give up, she has said she still loves me and wants to be married to me but she is not physically attracted to me. Can this be worked out? She wants to make it work becuase it benefits her as well. I always make sure she is taken care of no matter what. I put her 1st everyday and every moment even without sex and I am still here. As long as she loves me and believes it, I have a reason to fight.