When we're in a bad place, it's natural to think others are always thinking badly about you. But please try to keep in mind that we can't mind-read, that your interpretation of what others think and feel towards you may well be colored by how you're feeling about yourself right now. I think it's a good rule of thumb to check in with people about how they feel -when you're in a place to be able to do that.
I'd hate to see you end up isolating yourself -which would make things worse- by coming to these conclusions about those around you.
I'm not saying *no one* judges you harshly, but maybe not everyone. Maybe some people care more than you think, but it just doesn't feel like enough right now. Hang in there.
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