In a perfect world everyone would understand and be compassionate and loving. Well of course that is so far from that.

Take your meds in your room , set your cell phone and take then as scheduled. Whether your father ever realized you have a medical condition isn't really the issue. You have to decide if and when to take your meds , find a T and learn ways to decrease your off the chart em.. Is it easy to ignore remarks like that from a loved one ? Nope. But sometimes you just have stop beating a dead horse and realize you are in control in your life and what you need.