Thank you starry_night and Claritytoo. I really appreciate it. My T tried to have the alters look at themselves when they were out and they wouldn't. I kept switching. I wondered if they would see a reflection and hand of me at 60 some or see what they visualize themselves to be. Do you think having them see that when out, they are in my old body and not theirs? I just don't know if the understanding is there. By the way, I haven't worn a dress in about that long also. When my daughter was married I asked if I need to wear one and she graciously said no a pantsuit would work. Thank goodness.