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Originally Posted by pbutton
Mine told me last time that I need to let him decide when I am being "too needy" because my idea of needy and whiny is NOT in alignment with reality. He also told me that he has boundaries and it is his job to tell me when I hit them, rather than me trying to stay a million miles away from them.
No effing thank you, Mr. T. That sounds icky and I'd rather not be the kind of person who tries to cross other people's boundaries. Gross.
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I think he is saying you can come closer and open up more, because you are safe and it's okay...that's how I read that at least. And he clearly seems to trust you and is hoping you can trust him as well? Just a guess.
(I once had a T who was a boundary freak.)