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Old May 17, 2013, 04:36 AM
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Originally Posted by Buttercup.. View Post
I became very attached to my first therapist, I was only with her 4 months, I did CBT with her, I felt abandoned by her so now I am in longer term therapy been with my new T 3 months, I am afraid of becoming attached to her, what happens if she abandons me?

Thanks for posting the article Moon.
T#2 is skilled at what he does and he "Gets it!". I think his actions were inlined with having me become attached to him quickly in order for me to feel safe for the trauma processing to happen. I am hoping that as I heal I will move away from him naturally like a child growing up and leaving the nest. Until then I have to believe he won't abandon me. You have to believe also and not dwell on that thought.