I appreciate this so much, im soo confused, darth we are close friends, at one point a little more , He told me a few yrs ago, that something was going on with him, but he wished he could tell me but couldnt bring himself to do it, I had sent him a book with info i thought could help him, in it, it mentioned bipolar and other stuff and told him whatever he was struggling with i loved him and he always has my support, he was appreciative, and thanked me and hugged me but never mentioned what i wrote in book, i left it alone , never brought it up again, cause i didnt want to push him, Reason i ask now is in case he decides to tell me now, he told me before something was going on with him, so he knows i know there is more, so i thought if he tells me and hes struggling to get the words out, maybe if i say i know it could help him get the words out, but being silent is a better idea? I do not want to mess up, I know telling someone is one of the hardest things to do so i need to do this right , for him, i love my friend alot.....