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Old May 17, 2013, 11:10 PM
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Good/Bad/Should....are negative thinking patterns.

You state that you need to feel in the moment, in order to pass your classes in school?

Writers are known to go through what is a writer's block, at times. Unable to express themselves, because something inside of them holds them back.

In order to better communicate with others, on paper, zeroing in on the here and now, is a key ingredient, whether you want to be a novelist, like Stephen King, or just pass the class.

It's OK, to stop, ask yourself, right now, what am I feeling? Whether the emotion be positive, negative, strong or weak; Accepting it, in the moment will help.

It takes time to. Don't need to have a traumatic past, in order to not be able to move past those good/bad thinking patterns.
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Originally Posted by c-bot View Post
I'm not really sure if doing this is good or bad because

part of me says it has to,

People have told me it's bad to hide my emotions and I should stop "bottling them up" but I don't know how I would do this.

The part of me that makes me hide them is in control of everything, it can make me quiet when

. It also happens with writing, sometimes I have words to write down but that part of me says no you can't.

Sometimes it shuts me down before I've even started thinking about what I want to write.

because creative writing (and other stuff that would reveal emotions).