worknonit80,

I agree with ringtailcat, but would like to ask what makes you think that your T is trying to turn you straight? Is it a demeanor that she has, or is it based upon her Q of you ever sleeping with a man?

I am unsure what motivated her to ask you this Q, but you can certainly ask her on your next meeting. I would recommend coming straight out and ask ~ rather than make assumptions. We could be totally off on her reasoning! Maybe she has a decent reason for asking, maybe she was simply curious, or maybe it was a stupid reason. But, you won't know unless you ask her. From there, you can make an informed decision about whether or not you should make a change in T's.

Best wishes to you!