my sex life is defined similar to IT's. By quota. A set amount of one time (minimum) in seven days, or once a week, unless monthly hormones affect that. Then I get the week off. It is an agreed upon amount. We can have more then that if so desired, but to keep my H frustration free once a week will do. Once a week is one time to many for me. But in the spirit of happyness and meeting others needs, I can be availiable once a week.