Hi Sandipants,

Wow, I have to say that your fiancee needs alot of help. After all these years, he still? lies about things?

I'm sorry as you probably won't like what I have to say but I have your heart at interest and I think he will continue to lie until he can admit to himself that he has a problem. It sounds more like that he is sorry he got caught than that he lied to you. Am I wrong? Just be real careful as I feel he will continue this behavior!

Sorry you are going through this.

Linda