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May 19, 2013, 12:58 AM
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Originally Posted by Confusedinomicon
I would give her space like your other friends have suggested. You can email or something after a few weeks if she doesn't say anything to determine if she still wants the friendship.
Honestly you seem to be putting more effort into the relationship, though. This happened to me and we stopped being friends but we still have one another on fb.
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Thanks for your suggestion- How long should I wait until I email her for the third time? She might think that I'm "smothering" her, ugh! Yeah, I am currently putting more effort into this friendship. I know that this is a bad time for her, but the fact that she won't even bother to email or call me back to say, hi, I forgive you makes me feel like I don't matter to her at all.
It's been three weeks so far! I'm worried that knowing about my issues might've scared her off as I went into it a bit more in my last email. I also suspect that she might be jealous of me as I'm married and I don't have to work. We have a house while she has to rely on her soon to be cheating ex to pay for rent. If she can't get her ex fiancé to marry her, she'll have to move back to her mom's place and she doesn't want that. Honestly, she is way to desperate to get married and start having kids since she pushed her second husband into marriage and he ended up cheating on her after only a year or less of being married.
She'll talk to a guy for hours and obsess about them not calling her, but with me, she no longer wants to talk on the phone to me anymore like she used to. I wonder if telling her about my depression and anxiety was a big mistake as she did become a little more distant after finding out about that. I'll never know for sure. From now on, I'm keeping my mouth shut about my issues to everyone unless they mention their issues to me first if they have any!
Anyways, sorry to hear about you and your friend- If she continues to ignore me, I'm deleting her from FB. Like I told her in my first FB message, I don't want or need selfish people as friends. I'll give her closure if she continues to hold this against me after I already apologized to her twice! This is BS and I can't handle games and the stress that comes with it! Real friends would not toss me aside when a guy comes into their life or when I become too much of a "burden" to them so quickly!
Angie
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