Because it is a real test to see who is a friend and who is not.I reached out to them and some of them I have not heard from since the day I got one diagnosis.I have like 4 different diagnosis.They left me at one diagnosis and the remaining slowly lingered away.And then the closest one's tried to stay on phone calls every once and awhile and that ended recently.Because they live a few blocks away and your calling.That makes me more upset them calling when they could stop by my house ever once in awhile.