First of all thank you very much for your replies, I really appreciate it

We found out he is the father. And he never thought of not getting involved in his son's life. He met him yesterday for the first time and he said it was really hard... my problem is that this woman is evil. She has another son from my boyfriend's friend and she told him he can only see his son if he take the other child as well (my bf's son) so all these years my bf's friend was taking care of his son too. So the child is now confused... which is horrible because it's not his fault. So we already know that this woman will play games. She will wait until my bf has a connection with his son and she will use him. I don't have any idea how can we prevent that. I know it's gonna affect our life but we have to be really strong to get through this. I believe that our relationship is strong but I know we gonna have to sacrifice from now on and I don't know when are WE gonna be able to start our own family

Thanks again and if anyone has any advice for us please share it