Where do I start?
My 22 year old lives with his grandparents. My 19 year old lives with us. The 2 of them can't be in the same space for more than an hour without chaos.

The oldest has Aspergers & Schizophrenia. The youngest has yet to be diagnosed correctly, but ADHD, OCD, and BDD are his symptoms.

The youngest has burned his bridges with almost everyone, family, friends, etc don't want him around. He grates everyone's nerves and causes high anxiety, especially with his dad, my husband.

I don't know what to do! My family is all broken. Our youngest refuses to get help. Our oldest has many services and is getting lots of help.

My oldest can't even come to visit and it sucks!! He has to spend the Holiday with us as my parents are leaving for the weekend. He is getting anxiety already about coming.

I can't stand all the drama!! What happened to our family?? I want it back!! Stupid mental illness! We all have one and it sucks!!