I dated and married a man who smoked pot even tho I had never done it and didn't approve of it.

He was working when I married him, then quit his job and never got another in the 10 years we were together. He started smoking daily and spent the whole day doing God knows what (spending money, from what I could tell).

Eventually the pot wasn't enuff, so he started drinking Scotch. Then he added benzos to the mix.

Finally, he wanted me to join him in his addiction and gave me pot w/o my knowledge thru a chocolate bar. I cried for 3 hours and then threw up for 3 hours. But he thought it was awesome b/c we had good sex first, so he kept wanting me to do it again.

In hindsight, I wish I had steared clear. This may not be your story, but it's not an uncommon one, so think about if you want to go thru it just b/c he seems like a nice guy now.