Maybe. But you also should be able to discuss things without it turning into a fight. For someone who doesn't like conflict, why does he point out all your faults? Do you get angry when he does that? I am wondering if his actions do indeed cause the conflict he so hates.

It's hard living with someone like that. Have you ever thought of couples therapy or would he not go? Perhaps a third person may be what he needs to understand that you are allowed to voice any complaints, and the way he behaves will create resentment.

Hugs