Is it normal for a 38 year old man to be sexually attracted to 14-18 year old teenage girls? Or is this a big red flag for more disturbing things to come?
I ask this because the person I am seeing now is a military recruiter who has access to teenage girls daily. He believes his actions/ feelings are normal. examples of what I mean is: He shows no shame when checking out teenage girls at the mall even with me at his side, watching teenage porn to get his kicks off from time to time,& making sexual comments about teenage girls. Keep in mind I have no idea what he is like at work but know his personality and believe if given an opportunity he may take things to the next level. I find this very disturbing & I need to know if besides what I have wrote, are their signs I should look out for ? Or if I'm just reading into things to much and this is normal for men.
Please help! Any input is better than nothing.
Thank you