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Originally Posted by EllieBear
I don't know about reporting her or how that would work, so sorry, I'm not much help with that. But wow that is a mess! I would try talking to your T about it again, because just saying report her doesn't help you figure out how to actually deal with the current situation. Have you thought about what you need in order to take care of yourself in this situation? That could range from no contact whatsoever with ex-t or her daughter to whatever form of contact you are okay with. It's okay to figure out what you need and set some boundaries in this situation. Sorry you have to deal with this!
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Yea, I'm not the type of person to report anyone, my current T just gets a little worked up over this ethical thing. At least I know she cares :-)
I have been thinking about boundaries lately. For a while I was willing to help her out, but I'm not going to be anyone's door mat. Which is why I took the little boy home (to my ex T) today. It hurts me though, because that little boy is obviously suffering from the situation, and although I REALLY wish I could help him , I really don't know how to. I mean, I spend time with him when I can, but today - I had things to do, and she didn't ask, she just dropped him on my porch and left.
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