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Old May 20, 2013, 12:02 AM
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I seem to have a problem with that power differential thing. Like, I don't see it. lol I don't know why....it just doesn't bother me I guess.

But you are exactly right, I did do a lot more for them because of who they were, and there were times when I REALLY didn't feel like it, but did it anyway. I was sort of being a door mat. I have a hard time telling people "no" Always have, but I have been working in that in therapy, so hopefully, it'll get better :-)
This would be a VERY hard situation to say no in. Be patient with yourself I think a lot of people would have a hard time setting boundaries in this situation. Any boundary you are able to set I think shows incredible strength...so good job!
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