That COULD be true Genetic, I don't know. It was true for me, but I attributed it to the church I was brought up in because they drummed it into my head that "sex" was evil unless it was to have children. At least that's what the nuns told us. (now you know what church. LOL) Not ALL nuns taught that way -- it was just the order that WE got.

Plus my mother wasn't much help when she got drunk and called me a ***** or slut.

So yes, I always feared intimacy. How about others?