Oh Sabau,
I, too, cared for my Mom before her death. She has been gone four years now and I miss her terribly. She went into a coma before her death and one day I was sitting on the bed beside her and was holding her hand, and I told her to tell Dad that I loved and missed him. Even though she was in a coma, with her eyes closed, she squeezed my hand and smiled. So, right then, I knew she could hear me. From then on, I talked to her as I had to insert her pain meds up inside her or change her diaper or just anytime I was with her. I was holding her hand near the end and I told her it was OK to let go. She took her last breath.
I am so sorry about your Mom and also your Auntie. You can be proud that you were there for the both of them. Thank you for such a touching story. Sending lot's of hug's your way! (((((((((((((((((((((((((Sabau2))))))))))))))))))))))))))
Take care,
LInda
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