I agree with the other ladies on this thread. Mentioning sexual experience on the first date (whether a lot, a little, or none ) is very off-putting to a woman. Creepy even.

I also think that you might be thinking about this situation like a guy and not like the women you want to date. My female friends in your age group are much more interested in relationship experience rather than sexual experience. They like the idea of a guy who is interested in being in a relationship and worry that a guy who hasn't been in a relationship simply doesn't want to be in one. Many women in their 30's feel the ticking of their biological clocks and don't want to waste time with someone who has no interest in a future.

Good luck,
EJ