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Originally Posted by notALICE
My mom is a big trigger for me. I'm trying to set boundaries and have minimal interaction.
In your relationship, how do you feel forced? (If it's too personal, you don't have to answer). Maybe try to set boundaries there too?
I like the "anywhale". I vent often on here.
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I'm sorry you're going through so much. I can relate. |
Yeah. I think I'm going to do that as well... with the minimal interaction. I feel like I could just tell her that she needs to stop, but there's so much that she does that I just really don't want to. I would rather just stay away from her. It's better that getting myself in trouble for doing something stupid.
And for my relationship crisis... well I really really like her and she says she really really likes me too, but we argue A LOT and she got mad at me because I'm not comfortable with sex. Strange I know. Like she totally flipped. She also has AvPD so it's a bit difficult to ya know... get along all the time. She always thinks I hate her, when I really don't then it causes issues for me because I feel like I'm being accused and it doesn't sit well with me. So yeah. I don't know what to do. And like... if we broke up, I think it would break both of our hearts and I really can't do that to her right now.