I completely agree with Yoda and you should get out ASAP. This man is emotionally abusive, controlling and it will get worse. There are red flags all over this relationship. I wish I would have taken the red flags seriously because your BF has similar traits to my H, who I'm trying to leave soon. Don't fool yourself into thinking he'll change or if you're perfect it will be fine.

A loving relationship shouldn't have abusive names, telling you what to wear, how to act and rules like stern parent has over a child. If you leave he may make promises that he'll eventually break. As years go on, your self esteem will be whittled down and then you'll be scared to leave. Get out as fast as you can and don't listen to a word he says. You may need to change your number, block him online or get a restraining order. You deserve better and its not you who's the problem.