He will not change....you have already noticed his changes for the worse....it will continue getting even worse than what you have already experienced no matter what lies he tells you.

The red flags are waiving....you need to pay attention to them. I know it's hell to admit that your parents are right about a guy....but your parents are definitely right about this one.

I too wish I had paid attention to the red flags I saw before getting married.....I was even going to call off the wedding....but my parents just saw what a nice guy he was.....if he had been as horrible as the guy you are with....I am sure they would have noticed that.....some guys hide their abusive ways much better than others....the guy you are with is totally obvious at being abusive.....he's got all the traits. I would be running in the other direction at this point & not leaving any trace where I could be found because guys like that don't like to loose the person they are abusing & they feel the have trapped in their web.

Get out now while the getting out will be easier.....but beware & if you need to take protective actions against him....don't feel bad about doing it.