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Old May 21, 2013, 11:33 AM
AppleBrownBetty AppleBrownBetty is offline
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^^^I agree 100%

I am quite infuriated, but I am doing the best I can to keep this off my mind. In general, I don't care who moved in, but they needed to kick in their share of utilities and we should have known before it was done.

I also forgot to mention that we have not seen a BGE or Comcast bill into two months. He normally places them on the table to we can see the amount and pay accordingly but he hasn't done that for the last two bill cycles. And like an idiot, I paid him my "full half" without seeing a bill. This is around the same time where I noticed his girlfriend coming in and out of the house with her own key.

I'm just like "what's up with all the secrecy?" We didn't care if your girlfriend moved in, but a major house change like that, we should have had a discussion about it. My boyfriend and I have been arguing about this for a few days. I was trying to get him to understand that he's withholding important information from us for no apparent reason. We didn't know the GF moved in, we haven't seen utility bills for 2 months, and we didn't know the real owner is trying to sell the townhouse. Something fishy is going on, and I just don't appreciate it at all.

I'll admit I did something pretty immature yesterday: I went into the kitchen, cleaned out the cabinets, got rid of any old food leftover in the fridge, and also packed up all my pots/pans and dishes(including the toaster and the filtered water jug). Petty, I know, but hey, the GF isn't paying any bills so she can go buy whatever dishes they may need. But...it made me feel better and I didn't yell at or insult anybody. Obviously, I was going to pack up that stuff eventually...just trying to re-direct my anger in a non-violent/threatening way.