Fell in love with my wife first time i saw her, didnt stop me breaking her heart a million times, other women, drinking , fighting , staying out late, ect ect. But i only ever loved my wife even though i was a bastard., it never crossed her mind to leave me she loved me warts and all. We are getting on now and still in love and i settled down some time back. KIDS grandkids all the trimmings . How can 2 people be so in love with each other yet act so different????????opposites attract i suppose .