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Old May 21, 2013, 06:12 PM
ultramar ultramar is offline
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This sounds very confusing. I wonder if you could share more about what has been going on?

It sounds like she's wanted you to work out your relationship issues through the relationship with her? Sounds more psychodynamic than CBT, but then maybe she decided this was an issue for you and decided to approach things this way.

What I don't get, though, is what you said about her throwing how you said you feel about her back at you and saying how you were feeling was wrong. It sounds like she wanted a strong therapeutic relationship to develop, but somehow things got confused? What is it about your feelings that you shared with her did she think was 'wrong?' Telling you your feelings are wrong sounds like a very unfortunate way of addressing things --what happened?