I know this topic may seem more suited for some sort of magazine sexual Q & A, but, alas, I am not convinced many sources could actually answer my question.

I am 24 years old, and I've never had an orgasm from sex. Ever.

The most common answers I've gotten to this question (from close friends) is that I'm having sex with a guy who does not know what he's doing, etc, but what if the guy does know what he's doing?

I was in a complicated, near-molestation incident, as a child. This incident was attempted by a very close family member.

Without me going into details, could this play a part in my lack of orgasm? No matter what I try, it doesn't work.

Will this be the way for the rest of my life?

I imagine sex is very different when you are able to do this...and without it, it starts to seem less and less appealing.