He was so nice last night, it made me feel stupid for complaining. He just says he has trust issues after an ex cheated so I have some understanding why he is that way. I may be stupid but I think I should give him a chance to change, I'll tell him he has to change or I'm gone. Thanks for all your support, you've made me realise that I don't have to put up with that so if he doesn't change soon then I'm not going to any more.