Thank you for your response, much appreciated. He does have a drinking problem, but it has been months since he was drunk. Last night was the first time I saw him impaired in a long time. He said he only had a few tall cans of beer, but however much he had he was impaired. We have been doing so well lately, but just seeing him like that brings back all old issues. There have definitely been past woman problems made worse by alcohol. The trust was broken, and sometimes I feel like its impossible to completely trust again.