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Originally Posted by Cryingwithouttears
Thanks for the replies Roadie and Healingme4me....But I dont know this thought of "will she be living in a good way or not"."Will she be happy ever again" is just literally consuming me.Even when sometimes I decide that I will move on from this feeling and will take care of my health,I feel that she is sad and weeping there and I have no right to have a good life as I am the person who started this.Though I never had any bad intention for this whole relationship.Never.But this guilt is just eating me up and is getting in the way of any positive thing that I want to start.
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It's up to her to find her own happiness. Of course, it takes time to move on and heal. Sounds like rescuing mode to prevent her from feeling her own pain and anguish. Those are rather normal feelings to have, after a break up.
Are you being fair to the new person, in your life, when you aren't letting go, of your past relationship?