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Originally Posted by Harley47
I don't think that's the case. Again, I think if she valued dating more so than you, you wouldn't be in this position, so to speak.  She's still with you under the logical assumption that she does indeed love you. Try to take some comfort and security in that. 
It does seem like you do quite a bit for her, so I certainly don't think she's in much position to be envying your friend all that much. But, if she does actually miss the excitement of dating (which don't get me wrong, I don't think she was dropping a hint...I just tend to cover all bases  ), you two can still "date" and be engaged, you know. Movies, dinner...things like that. But again, I don't think she was trying to tell you something in that...I think she was just conveying excitement, is all. |
Yes! Yes! Yes!
And... if she does crave excitement just a little bit, maybe you need to add variety. Flowers+jewelry=good, but maybe she needs to be unsure, at times, that you WOULD kiss her... you know? Because if I read her statement literally, she craves the feeling of uncertainty and the expectation of the (
predictably lucky, but still...) resolution of that uncertainty. So maybe the flowers have been coming with too much predictability and certainty.
That is the only improvement suggestion I can gather from the evidence at hand.
Good luck!