I'm a 16 year old girl and I'm dealing with my depression. I'm currently in therapy and it's working for me.
But my mom is not making it easy for me.
My mom is kind of mental herself. I'm thinking bipolar disorder but I'm not a therapist so I'm not sure.

Anyway, as I'm trying to overcome my depression many things are going better over time except the relationship with my mother.
She can be very nice but mostly she just makes me feel bad.

I know that when we are fighting I'm also not very nice but I'm not taking it as far as her.

When I'm mad or we're fighting she says things like 'I am going to call the police' or 'I'm commiting you in a mental istitution' or 'I don't want you anymore' or 'Go live with your dad, I'm kicking you out' (my parents are divorced) or 'You are unable to live with. I don't think you will find anyone who can' or 'You're crazy / Insane ' (In my case, that doesn't help. It only makes me very, very mad)

I'm also overweight and it makes me feel really bad. My mom knows that I'm miserable. And still she makes fun of my weight or calls me 'a lazy fat pig'

And when we have a therapy session together, she is saying how I am the bad person and I'm awful to her. And apparently I am 'trying to make her depressed and crazy' ?!

Is this normal? Am I doing something wrong? Please, any advice is appreciated