Halliebeth I'm sorry you are disappointed, that feels bad no matter what the situation. However, I think it's good that you didn't follow through on this. Yes, I do think that tattooing is a form of self injury...especially when you describe it the way you do as to your reasoning for getting one. (((hugs)))

Socially acceptable? Perhaps among your peers. But again, the rate of depression among young ppl, the self hatred and suicidal tendencies are also high..I still believe there is a correlation.

Please do something good for yourself that isn't harming in any way. Then there is no backlash from it. TC!