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Originally Posted by hankster
My advice, if anybody cares, would be to worry less about being that person, because if you're THAT worried, it probably means you ARE doing it, unconsciously. Hmm. That's probably why my t did this whole thing for a while of HE was the boss of when the session was over, not me. He like wouldn't let me leave. I would get up to go, and he'd put his foot on top of mine and say no, we have two more minutes. I know stopdog is dancing right now, not in a good way!!, but my t is like a cute little puppy to me sometimes and it was okay. This is also what I mean by my being easily fooled. I have no idea what this all "meant", but it seemed positive.
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Pardon me, but ********. I know pbutton and she does not act that way. She is so worried about doing to others what was done to her, that she is going to the OPPOSITE end of the spectrum from encroaching on other people's boundaries. My T tells me the same thing about me - that I am at the opposite end of the spectrum from people who do this because I have such a horror of it. He tells me there is a middle ground that is not horrible, but I have not found it.