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Originally Posted by My kids are cool
Pardon me, but ********. I know pbutton and she does not act that way. She is so worried about doing to others what was done to her, that she is going to the OPPOSITE end of the spectrum from encroaching on other people's boundaries. My T tells me the same thing about me - that I am at the opposite end of the spectrum from people who do this because I have such a horror of it. He tells me there is a middle ground that is not horrible, but I have not found it.
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Right there with you. My boundaries have been so trampled over that I'm terrified of doing it to other people. My T keeps telling me there's a middle ground, but I've yet to find it myself. T often points out to me how I've gone to the extreme other end to try and protect my own boundaries and not infringe on others.