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Originally Posted by My kids are cool
Pardon me, but ********. I know pbutton and she does not act that way. She is so worried about doing to others what was done to her, that she is going to the OPPOSITE end of the spectrum from encroaching on other people's boundaries. My T tells me the same thing about me - that I am at the opposite end of the spectrum from people who do this because I have such a horror of it. He tells me there is a middle ground that is not horrible, but I have not found it.
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Well, I wasn't talking to pbutton. I was talking about myself. But if the shoe fits... stop yelling at me. Just because the situation bothers me, doesn't mean I'm right or wrong.
ETA: I don't think you fix something by bulldozing over it, by saying. "No, look over HERE!!" But different people do therapy different ways. It's not easy to admit you're one of "those people", whoever they are. But I have been feeling more like myself. And I looked at my post, and I really don't see how anybody could have taken it personally.