Okay. What I'm saying is, if you (or I) are SO focused on NOT doing A, then we're probably unconsciously doing B, which, if we realized it, we would not be so happy about. And B is probably related to A in some way. I don't use salt when I cook, then I buy lunchmeat which is salty but fast cuz I didn't cook. If YOU don't do this, and by you, I mean the rest of the world, then goodie for you. I should take a lesson. But the lesson is not about salt - it's about how to take care of ourselves. So what is the lesson about in not overstaying our welcome, is yhe real question. Because the truth is, the fact is, we ALL are welcome at our t's, kinda by definition. What is all this prancing around about? "Oh, I'm not like THAT!" Unless we're afraid we are? And why would we be afraid we are? Because we were unwelcome at home. So it would make MORE sense FOR us to be like that. Imo.