Whatever. I've been with the dude for 7+ years, and while he's seen the ugliness... Held me, put his foot down, spoke up & called me on my B.S., he has NEVER coddled me. No one has ever taken care of me. And while he's said "you need to call your doctor" he's never loaded me up in the car & whisked me away to the doc. Don't think that would do a thing in the way of trust. Nope.